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This memorial website was created in the memory of our loved one, Matthew Conroy who was born in United States on November 22, 1977 and passed away on December 28, 2006 at the age of 29 from injuries sustained in a car accident with a coal truck.  We will remember him forever. 













If you ever met Matt all you had to do was look at him and you knew what an amazing person he was.  He was the most unselfish person I had ever met.  He showed me that there were genuine people in this world that really do care.  The first day I met Matt I told my co-worker that I was going to marry him and have his children and that is what we went on to do.  He stepped in and scooped up my 2 children and made them his own.  Matt was the most wonderful father and partner that anyone could have.  Not a day went by that at least one person told me how lucky I was and how amazingly giving he was.  At any given time if you saw Matt he probably had 2 or 3 of our 4 children with him.  Always wanting to make my days easier and take care of everything.  He made me feel like a queen.  



I remember the day I had Mason and I had to be taken back for an emergency C-section...Matt was crying and kissed me on the forehead.  That night the hospital would not allow him to stay all night because I had some problems with the C-section and was still being watched over.  Matt called me on the phone from my grandma's house and told me that he would never be able to sleep because he had not spent one night without me since we had been together.  When we finally brought Mason home Matt glowed with pride...our baby looked just like him.  From that moment on Mason and Matt were inseperable.  We went on to have Kyler on February 18 2006.  Our family was complete.  Matt coached soccer and was a cub scout leader and was just involved in everything the kids did.  They loved him and he loved them.  He spent all of his time making a good life for me and the kids.  




On December 25, 2006 we celebrated our baby Kyler's first Christmas.  On December 28, 2006 Matt was on his way home from a job interview.  I had talked to him on his cell phone at 1:35pm exactly.  He said he was about 10 minutes away and he was coming straight home.  I was so glad because our 10 month old was sick and the other 3 boys were being wild.  




At 1:46pm my world was changed forever.  Matt was within walking distance from my house when he crossed the yellow line and had a head on collision with a coal truck.  A friend of mine saw the accident and ran to my house to get me.  I ran the whole way there crying.  When I got there the EMT's were working on him and wouldn't let me near.  As they were getting him into the ambulance they let me talk to him even though he was unable to respond.  I told Matt to be strong and I was going to be there with him the entire time.  I told him that me and the boys loved him and needed him so bad.  His eyes were open but as I looked into them they were empty.  I had a strong feeling at that point that I was never going to see him again.  Matt was life flighted to Pittsburgh where he went into surgery immediately.  When the doctor called me and Matt's dad into a private room to talk I knew by the look on his face what he was going to say.  I listened to him but the only words I heard were "I'm sorry, as much as we tried, there was nothing else we could do for him."  I screamed and screamed and screamed.  Everything left my body and I have been completely empty since that very minute. I cannot imagine how my life will go on without him in it.  I can only dream of the day that we will meet again and spend our eternity together. Matt was an angel sent to me from God. I only wish he hadn't taken him back so soon.  I love you Matt, you were my soul mate and you will forever live in my heart and the hearts of our babies.  Until we are together again......................














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Tributes and Condolences
I miss you so much   / Kiera (Soulmate)
Please give me a sign that you are still here with us and that someday we will see you again. I really need that....love you and miss you so much.
Happy Father's Day!   / Kiera (Wife <3 )
As the years continue to pass since we've last seen you I can't help but wonder if you are able to see and enjoy the boys from upon Heaven. I look at the pictures and it seems lime just yesterday you were holding my babies in your arms. My life has ...  Continue >>
Happy Birthday Matt   / Kiera
It's so hard to believe that it's been almost 4 years since God took you to be with him. Not a single day has gotten easier since you left. Today is your birthday and I would've been making fun of you saying you were getting to be an old man...(even ...  Continue >>
Since you got there before me......   / Kiera (Missing you )
I read a note my grandma wrote back in 1923 Grandpa kept it in his coat and he showed it once to me He said boy you might not understand But a long long time ago Grandma's daddy didn't like me none But I love your grandma so We had this cra...  Continue >>
Kyler's 3rd birthday   / Kiera (Missing you )
Today is our baby's 3rd birthday.  It makes me so sad to think that you will never see another birthday with our kids.  They talk about you everyday and I see the pain in their little herts and how much they miss you.  Our lives will n...  Continue >>
Hope you're doing okay  / Lisa -. Sis To Matt Jones     Read >>
Thank you  / To The Other Matt Conroy From Kiera     Read >>
sorry / Matt Conroy (share the name )    Read >>
Loving you.....missing you  / Kiera (wife)    Read >>
Natt / Mason Conroy (son)    Read >>
what is it like in hevin  / Jalen Price (son)    Read >>
This Christmas  / Robin Heilman     Read >>
Birthday Mass for Matt- November 25th  / Kiera Czekanski     Read >>
God this hurts me....  / Dear Matt Love, Me (your wife forever )    Read >>
Thinking of you  / Lisa Anthony (friend)    Read >>
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His legacy
Live life as if each day were your last  





Although Matt did not know that he was going to be taken so early, Matt lived his life with no regrets.  I remember us talking about how I wanted to make sure that we always told the kids how much we loved them and kissed them every day because we never knew what God had in store for us each day.  On Thanksgiving Day 2006 I bought Matt a CD single of the song "Live Like You Were Dying" that came with a small book of inspiritational photos.  I had intended to give it to him for Christmas but I can never wait to give gifts.  I gave it to him that night.  He kinds looked and me and smiled his quirky little smile because he didn't care for country music.  I told him that it was not about the music...it was about the words.  He read the book (the lyrics were written in a poem form) and said..that is pretty cool.  I put the CD on in the car and it stayed there.  From that day on when I was in the car I would listen to that song on repeat until I got where I was going.  Matt would listen to it when I was in the car but I know when I got out he put WDVE on the radio.  But the main thing is how much the words of the song meant and also...that I was compelled to buy him this CD as a gift.  Matt lived each day to the fullest and did everything he could do to the best of his abilities.   That CD was in the CD player of our van on the day of the accident.   Here are the words that he would want all of you to read:


He said I was in my early forties
with a lot of life before me
when a moment came that stopped me on a dime
and I spent most of the next days
looking at the x-rays
Talking bout the options
and talking bout sweet time
I asked him when it sank in
that this might really be the real end
how's it hit you when you get that kinda news
man what'd you do

and he said
I went sky diving
I went Rocky Mountain climbing
I went 2.7 seconds on a bull named fumanchu
and I loved deeper and I spoke sweeter
and I gave forgiveness I'd been denying
and he said someday I hope you get the chance
to live like you were dying.

He said I was finally the husband
that most the time I wasn't
and I became a friend a friend would like to have
and all the sudden going fishin
wasn't such an imposition
and I went three times that year I lost my dad
well I finally read the good book
and I took a good long hard look
at what I'd do if I could do it all again

and then
I went sky diving
I went Rocky Mountain climbing
I went 2.7 seconds on a bull named fumanchu
and I loved deeper and I spoke sweeter
and I gave forgiveness I'd been denying
and he said someday I hope you get the chance
to live like you were dying.

Like tomorrow was a gift and you got eternity to think about
what'd you do with it what did you do with it
what did I do with it
what would I do with it?

Sky diving
I went Rocky Mountain climbing
I went 2.7 seconds on a bull named fumanchu
and then I loved deeper and I spoke sweeter
and I watched an eagle as it was flying
and he said someday I hope you get the chance
to live like you were dying.
To live like you were dying
To live like you were dying
To live like you were dying
To live like you were dying 




So, tonight before you go to bed...stop whatever it is you are doing....or arguing about........or worrying about......and go to bed and hug your husband or wife, read your kids that bedtime story they hound you about...and make sure you kiss them and tell them how much you love them.  Call your mom and dad just to say thank you for bringing you into this world and for teaching you so many important lessons about life...and cherish every single moment you have with those you love.....We can never be sure of how much time we have left to do all of those things.




"I love you Matt and if I say it a million times now it still doesn't make up for the times I could have said it and didn't."
 
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